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January 1, 2012

Hand Job Techniques: Part One - Basic Skills For Him

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We are turning up the heat here at Dick-n-Jane.com with a revealing new series of videos intended to demonstrate some basic skills for pleasing your partner.

Handjobs were chosen for this series because we believe the hands' versatility make them an exceptional sex tool capable of producing the most intense physical sexual response.

First up... six simple handjob strokes to leave him breathless and begging for more. If you see something new here, try adding it to your routine. If these strokes are already familiar to you, take this as a reminder to regularly incorporate great variety.


The Hungry Squid - A gentle, warm-up stroke... five fingers teasing the tip to get his full attention.

Poll Climber - Successive, alternate handed strokes in a singular direction. If his eyes are closed he'll swear he's being swallowed up by an endless vagina.

Meat Roll - Back handed with a twist of the wrist, this is a great stroke for full sensation on his shaft.

Top Stroke - Gently stretches the penile ligament, feels great on the shaft, and as her hands pull up and over the glans he gets a very pleasurable zing.

The Hitchhiker - Basic stroke familiar to all men who have masturbated but her angle places a thumb right under the frenulum which is a quick ride to orgasmville.

Magic Thumbs - Another thumb adds more pressure, more friction, and more intensity to the frenulum. She can also provide a more complete grip and tighter squeeze to the shaft than with a one handed stroke.

Click here to view our video here on Dick-n-Jane.com. You may also view it on X-Tube or RedTube where you can also find embed code should you choose to share the video on another blog or website.

The best technique you can bring to the bedroom is a playful willingness to experiment and have fun. We really hope these tips inspire you to find your own new favorites... go get started!

20 comments:

  1. Wow! This is fantastic! I've been out of the game for a long time, but there's a new guy who makes me want to up my skills. I shared your site with him and we agree it has been a huge help. Thank you both.

    I've added your blog to my blog roll so we won't miss a post. I hope it sends lots of folks your way!

    -Sassy

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  2. @Sassy - We hope you and Phil get some sexy fun ideas here at Dick-n-Jane.com. And thanks for linking to us!

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  3. You two should post more videos, period. This one is not only instructional, it's hot! :)

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  4. @Anon - We definitely plan to post more as we have a whole series of handjob videos mapped out. AND... Jane bought me a tripod for Christmas, so you never know where THAT might lead. ;o)

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  5. Very nice! I'm gonna have to try out the magic thumbs!

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  6. @Victoria - you can't go wrong with the Magic Thumbs! That has been one of Jane's staples for a while now... in fact I blogged about that technique back in 2009.

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  7. Thank you for this! I was never quite sure what I was doing but hubs seemed happy with my effort. He really enjoyed testing out these techniques though! I think the hungry squid and the poll climber will be used a lot in the future!

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  8. @Anon - When it comes to handjobs it's hard to go wrong... and there's extra credit for a willingness to experiment, so you're doing it right!

    There will be more videos with more suggested techniques so stay tuned!

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  9. I never had problems with women before I met my wife. But I can not bring to her orgasm by hand. Do you have any tips, or plans on posting female hand job instructional videos?

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  10. @Anon - YES! We do have plans to post hand job techniques for women. Haven't filmed it yet... but what and when we post has a lot to do with Jane's comfort level with the [yet to be seen] end result. Watch for something in the next month and keep your fingers crossed!

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  11. Love the instructional tips. Please make more videos. Wife and I had to test drive your techniques, and cannot wait for round 2.

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  12. @Anon - More vids are planned! We're glad to hear you and your wife got some fun out of the first episode... I know I sure did (but that was probably obvious at the end).

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  13. I've tried most of these before, and this is indeed a good reminder to keep trying them! I tend to fall back to the same motions over and over, and at that point he might as well be masturbating himself! :P

    Time to spice things up for the new year, right? :D

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  14. Playing variety is always one of the key ingredients to a moan-worthy hand job. So, you'll have to experiment with different moves to discover exactly what sends your man over the edge.

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  15. Awesome!
    /nakencrille.blogspot.com

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  16. You folks are wonderful! My lovely wife has enjoyed this article, and we both look forward to the sequel, For Her. Guys are a lot more obvious than ladies, I think.
    We thank you for the wonderful work you are doing.

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    1. Doug - Thank you so much for the positive feedback, that never gets old! :o) We have the "for her" sequel planned (and have already signed the talent) but, sadly, have not filmed it yet. Stay tuned!!

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  17. Great site. I could learn a thing or two.

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  18. Thanks for restoring this link! It is one of my favorites and my guy refers to it a lot... it helps keep our long-distance relationship fun!

    -Sassy

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    1. We're glad you like the video Sassy, it was fun to make! There are still a bunch of dead links on the site from the whole Tumblr fiasco but I try to fix them as I find them. Not doing a very good job though, I'm afraid.

      It was good to hear from you again!

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