The duration of men's sexual response is limited by orgasmic exhaustion; one, two, three, or four in a single night and we've had it... there are limits to a male's physiological capacity to reach orgasm without sufficient rest in between.
Women, on the other hand, seem limited only by physical exhaustion; one orgasm is a warm up, two is getting there, and three is a decent night.
The height of sexual arousal in women is sustainable and, for many, orgasm is as much a driver of further arousal as it is a release of sexual energy. It's like the impossible perpetual motion machine where each cycle feeds the next with its own self-generated momentum.
It's been a while (like since our seeds took root)... but there was a time when Jane and I would spend full days languishing naked in bed together, exploring our sexual likes and limits. In repeated acts which were equally selfless and selfish, I used every means imaginable to drive Jane into orgasm after orgasm.
Eventually Jane's peaks of climax would merge into a steady, unending sexual plateau that took hold of her entire body in an erotic coup of her own self-governance. Unable to control her response and unable to resist my attention, every touch (any touch) would send her reeling into whole body contractions epicentered blissfully in her pelvis.
A kiss on the neck, a hand on her breast, anything... she'd have a full blown orgasm and come out of it primed for the next. She was an endless orgasm machine with a hair trigger and I was her cause to tremble.
There is a seductive power in this level of control and I knew just how many successive orgasms it took to render Jane sexually helpless... nine was the magic number. Once she hit the ninth peak it was a steady and effortless roll from one to another.
We've aged a bit since then and our bodies speak to each other in whole new ways, but I'll bet Jane would still respond just as well to the magic nine. And now I have a plan for the weekend.
What about you?
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According to our playmate, I am remarkably easy to please (and abnormally vocal). When my husband and I first got together, like you and Jane, we had all-day sessions of exploration, particularly focused on him pleasing me. Those have sort of been revitalized in the form of play dates with our playmate... weekly long evenings in which I am generally the focus of two men's attentions.
ReplyDeleteI have difficulty counting orgasms after three -- but those first three tend to come quickly and I know that I have more afterwards -- and the men cannot always tell when I am cumming or not. So, counting seems to be difficult. However, I do tend to orgasm readily and often. Maybe not with the hair trigger that you described, but not far off.
My wife's magic number is 1.
ReplyDeleteShe likes to just roll over and crash out after a single big huge one.
I on the other hand prefer to have a couple. Usually she gets a couple while I am still aiming for my first one so it is rare I get a second one with her.
My girlfriend has no magic number. She likes the sex more than the orgasms so however many happen is not relevant.
She is however into leaving me exhausted so tries when time permits to make me orgasm until I become non functioning.
Well the magic number for me seems to be 1 as well, i thought i was kinda abnormal for just wanting to roll over and go to sleep afterwards and thought i was more like a man in this aspect but maybe im not as abnormal as i thought? interesting!
ReplyDeleteI view women's orgasm not so much as a point, but a state. Once you overlaps them enough you get into the constant state where any touch continues it. Some days my wife hair-trigger, other days it takes 4 or 5 "points" to overlaps into the steady-state. I've never counted, though!
ReplyDeleteYou guys really know your stuff. Most people sorta of glaze over if I talk about this and think I am crazy,
You describe her orgasmic response very well! Overlapping points is a good visual... I find that each successive orgasm is easier (i.e. points getting closer together) until they finally merge, as you said.
DeleteI sort of glaze over when I talk about this stuff too, but not for the same reasons you eluded to. You're not crazy, I know exactly what you are talking about!
Thanks for your remarks, OffTheCuff. ;o)
Oops, I goofed it a bit due to late night typing. What I meant to say was...
ReplyDeleteI view female orgasm more as a *wave*, which has a peak. Most people focus on the peak, because that's what easiest to see. But it's not the whole story.
Once you overlap the waves, there is interaction between them. They start to multiply, rather than being isolated events, and generate higher peaks, as each wave sits on top of the previous one.
A bunch of waves spaced out too far apart, are just waves, and each peak is an island - it's not built on others.
But when bunch of waves overlap, can turn into a monstrously HUGE peak. This is the "steady state" which I was describing. You know you've done it right when you have to STOP touching your woman, lest she be unable to breathe and pass out!
My girlfriend's magic number is 0. I think I might be doing something wrong.
ReplyDeleteI have never really counted my orgasms. To be honest I
ReplyDeleteam often to busy enjoying " The Fuck " to really worry about
how many times I cum. I am however multi-orgasmic and am very
vocal during sex (can be a problem with two kids right down the hall!). I love "dirty talk" especially when I am close to orgasm. Funny, I even talk dirty to myself when I do decide to masturbate. When I masturbate two or three orgasms
and I'm done ( then I want to sleep! Ha!).
Ben has had as many as 6 orgasms in one night, said his balls ached for a day or so afterward though.
Generally twice a session is normal for him. I love watching
Ben cum! His facial expressions are priceless and he huffs and puffs like a frieght train. Sometimes I can't help but laugh.
Well, time to clean house! -Gina
Gina - you don't count your own but you do count Ben's. You know that Ben is counting how many O's he gives you, right?
DeleteYou two sound like you have it pretty good in the sack, despite the kids down the hall. When the kids start making the train noises though... that will be a riot! ;o)
It's great to hear so many perspectives... like a peek into your bedrooms to see what's going on!
ReplyDeleteJane's experience of the sustained sexual plateau is no longer common for us but, as I understand it, is a physiological possibility for most women given the right conditions and the right treatment.
See if YOU can make it happen!
Ben's are not continuous. There are breaks in between fuckings. Thats why I say two is about average for him.
ReplyDeleteThe only reason I remember the six is because of his comment about his balls aching. It's easy for me to keep up with how many times he fucks me a night.
As I said, I am multi-orgasmic and never think about how many orgasms I am having. Isnt it the quality and not the quantity that counts?
-Gina
If he has counted them, he has never said anything about how many times I cum. I have
ReplyDeletenever asked either. " Honey, how many times did
I cum? " Maybe I am not your average woman I guess!
- Gina
I think a monster has been created! But in Gina's defense, I
ReplyDeletehaven't thought about counting her orgasms. I did one time
when we were first married and I believe it came to about 5
before I gave out.
Oh and baby, I only came 5 times the night your talking about and we were up all night. Remember!
Dick, sorry dude! But when she gets going...
Ben
I've been with my husband for four years now and over that course he has been able to figure me out in so many ways. We've explored so many things and he's made me do more than try to count my orgasms. By the time he's through with me, I really am a wet mess, and usually he has to welcome me back. I'm really not sure how many women get to experience that kind of euphoria.
ReplyDeleteUnknown, do not feel lonely I am the same way.
ReplyDelete- Gina
Me and my wife's also spend a whole night similar you & jane. My wife's magic number is 3. We enjoyed sex very much.
ReplyDeleteWow! Nice Article posted by you. My wife's magic number is also 1 like Infarno.
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