Hand Job Techniques: Part One - Basic Skills For Him

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We are turning up the heat here at Dick-n-Jane.com with a revealing new series of videos intended to demonstrate some basic skills for pleasing your partner.

Handjobs were chosen for this series because we believe the hands' versatility make them an exceptional sex tool capable of producing the most intense physical sexual response.

First up... six simple handjob strokes to leave him breathless and begging for more. If you see something new here, try adding it to your routine. If these strokes are already familiar to you, take this as a reminder to regularly incorporate great variety.

- View our handjob video here -

The Hungry Squid - A gentle, warm-up stroke... five fingers teasing the tip to get his full attention.

Poll Climber - Successive, alternate handed strokes in a singular direction. If his eyes are closed he'll swear he's being swallowed up by an endless vagina.

Meat Roll - Back handed with a twist of the wrist, this is a great stroke for full sensation on his shaft.

Top Stroke - Gently stretches the penile ligament, feels great on the shaft, and as her hands pull up and over the glans he gets a very pleasurable zing.

The Hitchhiker - Basic stroke familiar to all men who have masturbated but her angle places a thumb right under the frenulum which is a quick ride to orgasmville.

Magic Thumbs - Another thumb adds more pressure, more friction, and more intensity to the frenulum. She can also provide a more complete grip and tighter squeeze to the shaft than with a one handed stroke.

Click here to view our video here on Dick-n-Jane.com. You may also view it on X-Tube or RedTube where you can also find embed code should you choose to share the video on another blog or website.

The best technique you can bring to the bedroom is a playful willingness to experiment and have fun. We really hope these tips inspire you to find your own new favorites... go get started!

Looking Back on 2011 (Dick)

Jane and I have something new and fun slated to start in January, a short series that involves a lot more than just simple blogging... we're excited about it and hope you'll make a point to visit again in a few weeks to check out the first episode. That's all I will say on the topic.

In the meantime, and to buy us a little time during the busy holiday, we've put together a year-end highlights reel. You know, like when TV shows produce a flashback episode because the filming budget ran out. What follows are our favorite moments and recommended reads from the past year, find your sexy favorites and leave comments to let us know how we're doing.

Weekend Away Series - We took a little weekend trip but stayed here in the city. As is the case for any of our series, read from the bottom up!

Hot or Not Series - We had fun playing a little game with each other and were glad to share it with our readers. Be sure to vote for all your favorites!

Picked up a new sexy affiliation - Pornographic Love is a really hot new site featuring a committed couple like ourselves. We love their work and think you will too!

Introduced the Sex & Relationship Expert Panel - There are countless unqualified bloggers answering sex questions online, we know because we were two of them! Now we have some help from distinguished professionals in the field of Sex & Relationships. Ask your toughest questions... go ahead!

Unveiled our new Toy Store - This was a very exciting addition to our site, the Dick-n-Jane branded sex toy store! Whatever you want, whatever you need (lube refill?), consider our shop... it helps us keep the site running.

Top Sex Bloggers of 2011 - We were honored to make Rori Sweet's Top 100 Sex Bloggers list again this year. We've climbed to #11 on the list and are thrilled to be alongside some really top notch sex blogs!

Sexiest Blogs of 2011 - Red Region Inferno's Sexiest Blog list named us again as "One of the best all around personal style sex themed blogs online". Wow, that's quite a reputation to live up to... stay tuned while we do that and more!

Hit #1 "Couples Sex Blog" - All major Search Engines agree, Dick-n-Jane.com is the #1 most relevant "couples sex blog" on Google, Yahoo, and Bing. This was a major SEO achievement for us.

Started another photo blog: Hotel Sex - As a side project, because Dick notices the background in porn as much as the lusty bodies, Hotel Sex catalogs what goes on behind closed hotel room doors.

Wrote some mild sexy humor - Dick's tongue, it seems, is either exploring Jane's folds or planted firmly in his cheek. Humor seasons this blog, check it out for yourself.

Added some sexy pics of ourselves - We're getting a little looser with the camera and you can see it in our blog. Find pictures of us here on the sex blog and even more over in Hot Pics.

Happy Holidays to you, we hope you have a festive couple weeks and we'll see you here again (for some brand new sexy fun) in 2012!

Hot or Not Poll #5: From Behind (Dick)

By popular demand, we are pleased to present the continuation of our "Hot or Not Poll" series! We find these animated GIF's while trolling Tumblr for the best couples erotica, if you want a little more back-story you should check out the first poll: Hot or Not Poll #1: Penis and Vagina.

This episode's theme is "From Behind" and features couples... well, I don't really need to explain it, do I? There is certainly kinkier sex to be found online, but these erotic couples scenes are all super hot, good luck picking your favorites!

I know you want to VOTE HERE for ALL these sexy GIF's, but try to limit yourself to five or six. Click the pictures to see the animated GIF's. Have fun!

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A Debt of Gratitude (Dick)

Freddy & Eddy

I recently sent a long overdue email.

As a blogger, I have come to appreciate the value (and rewards) of feedback. Out of the blue, I get private messages with personal stories of relationship successes and improved sexual experiences attributed to this website... they always surprise me.

It was my turn to share a personal experience, to share with the creator of another website how my life had been influenced by their work. I should have done this sooner.

Dear Ian and Alicia – Back in the summer of 2007, Jane and I went through a sexual upswing (mostly due to Jane’s rediscovery of her libido), we opened to each other in ways we had not previously, and our relationship walked through a new door. There was a small handful of podcasts and websites that were central to the dialogues which brought new light to our marriage back then... and freddyandeddy.com was one of them.

We read your site, we bought products from your store, and Jane was very inspired by each of your personal stories. So inspired, that she registered a domain name (dick-n-jane.com) and told me to get to work on a website, she wanted to be like you!

A year later I finally got around to it and we debuted the site in August of 2008. Since then we’ve grown a bit and are among the more popular personal sex blogs online which, in our corner of the Internet, is not bad for a long-term monogamous couple! We even have our own “store” which is really just an affiliate outlet.

I’m not sure what took so long, but I just found you two on Facebook and it reminded me that I owe you both a debt of gratitude. We have a more vibrant sex life than we used to, we have a fun outlet for sexy dialogue, and a little extra income... thanks to the inspiring stories you chose to openly share with your readers.

I hope this message finds you both well!

This correspondence is being shared with you, reader of Dick-n-Jane, in the hope you may find words of inspiration from Ian and Alicia as well (website).