Jane loves movies with a strong female lead (and by "strong" I mean tough-as-nails-and-takes-no-shit-from-anyone), she refers to them as "Bad Ass Chick Movies". Topping her favorites list are Angelina Jolie, both in Wanted and Tomb Raider, and Kate Beckinsale in Underworld.
Movies do well to transport us into fantasy, Jane revels in the lure of these women's sexual authority, and her fascination with these characters reveals a lust for power.
At one time Jane was a socially reserved introvert. Sexy as hell, sure, but she was more likely to sit quietly on the sidelines than show you who's boss. Not surprisingly, her demure nature followed us into the bedroom where her typically assumed role was that of "bottom".
Jane likes her sex mildly rough at times, enough that a little bruising the next day is considered a good thing. But getting fucked hard is still just that... getting fucked. It is definitively NOT the position of power.
We recently broke a sexual barrier with some role reversal and tried Pegging. For me, it was an amazing physical experience. For Jane, it was a taste of domination that left her with a keen sense of sexual authority. She liked it... and she wants more.
Like any woman excited by how she feels, Jane did the next logical thing... she went shopping for shoes. She did this in secret, of course, and I have no idea what she actually came home with (though I suspect thigh high black boots!).
Her plan is to surprise me with them; to dress herself in some way that she finds sexually empowering (and that I find totally fucking hot!!), strap on her harness, and to show me who's boss.
We have a tentative date set for all this fun and, until she reveals her seductive self to me on that date, I am not allowed to know anything about her new shoes. All I can do is fantasize about my strong female lead. The only thing I know about what she'll be wearing on her feet is that she calls the new footwear her "Fuck You in the Ass" shoes.